Thats How We Are

Our Creator has created us all with thrust for one thing, "Knowledge".  Ever since a child is born, he starts his quest for knowledge. we can observe this quest from his actions. first, he tries to know who he is seeing around him i.e. his mother, his father, his siblings etc, he tries to know what things are around him, his toys, he also begin to know what he can do, his abilities, move his hand, his eyelids, his smile, kicking legs etc.

He also begin to understand that whatever gestures he makes, his smiles and his words is making people around him happy, so he will try to do more to make them happy. this means that thrust for knowledge is not the only thing we look for, we also look for ways to make people around us happy. because we feel happy, when we saw others around us happy because of us.

As i mention that we strive to have knowledge of things and people around us from the very first ray of our life. in doing this, we use our abilities, because this is among the first things we learn, that we can sense things and people around us. these senses of ours are our abilities to gain and understand knowledge around us. but , our abilities are limited, everything that we use around us is limited in its usability. 

with the passage of time and our growth, we begin to learn that our Creator has blessed us with a very powerful tool, that can store, that can create, that can imagine, that can help us increase our abilities, of course, limited but extend the limits of our abilities by feeding our hunger for knowledge. i am talking about "The Brain".  so i have much to discuss about this phenomenon and of course a lot to discuss about it, but the bottom line is this, we all are here to find, to reach the end-we don't know how far it is but we are on our quest. and we all are here on the same path.

A successful person is the one who can equipt himself and also help others with abilities and tools to acquire knowledge that awaits us in this universe. please share your views and comments. Thank you for Reading.

Think about It

There are good things in life and band things as well. the importance of these things are very well known to us. we are well aware of the need and importance of these things. however, it is us to recognise the goodness and badness of such things. sometimes we consider good things as good things, which is a good thing. but it happens often to us that we do think of good things as bad things.

There is another situation as well, its about the bad things. sometimes we consider bad things as bad, but sometimes we also think of bad things as good things. these were the four commonly occurring situations to us in our lives. i believe you all will agree with it.

any one who is able enough to correctly and precisely recognize the exact difference between these situation as well as deal with it the way they are, is the one who can live his life the way he wants. because he has the ability to cope with any situation happening to him in his life. there are two main problems with above situations. the first one is that when we consider things that are good as bad and the second one is when we think of bad things as good for us. normally in our lives we do have people around us, these people have the ability to guide us through such situation, however,  we don't consideration to their views and guidance as their guidance is available to us all the time. 

this brings to another point, that we don't give value to things that are available to us, that we possess in our lives. anyways the point is that besides these people, we always look for some sort of other expensive way of getting to know the nature of these two above mentioned problematic situations. sometimes we fail to find, even these expensive ways, which brings us to experience the odds of these misunderstood situations. and benefit us for the fact that we can become such people, who can and is freely willing to and is always available to our loved ones for their guidance through such situations.

there is another problem, these people have to face. the problem arose, when those loved one's are facing the odds of these misunderstood situations and are stupid enough to refuse the guidance of these people available to them. in this case these guiding people have the problem of letting their loved one's go. let them suffer, let them face these odds. they cant bear the fact that due to the stupidity of their loved ones by not listening to their loved ones are facing these trouble. because wrongly interpreting the reality of things really make you fall a victim of its odds.

At the end, there comes a lesson to those loved ones, they do realized their mistakes and promised to follow the guidance, always available to them. and this is the ideal situation, because most of the time, people dont learn from their mistakes. and sometimes when they do realize that they were wrong in their decisions, their guiding angles departed to another world.

Mysterious Teacher and Eloquence of Words

Its been a long time since i wrote my last post, there is as usual, always promising excuses for this lack of presence, but then again, there is no one to blame me for this, as i haven't seen any of my reader here on this page. once again, there is many reason other than my inability to market this page, beside i am not intended to commercialize this post either. so one of those many reason is that i have no persuasive power, the eloquence of words i used here or more specifically my English writing skills are very poor. yes i admit this weakness, although i am improving it. 

Two things mentioned here in the above starting paragraph. one is Eloquence of Words, speech. this very thing depends on the ability to properly utilize the words and their power. or in other words, each and every one of these words, we normally use in our daily life have right on us. the right to use them properly, beautifully and in short to justify their usage in place, where they are being used. so it worth a thought in our life. not just English language, every language comes in this thought. this means we not only have to think before we leap, or thing before we speak, i suggest we have to think before we write, and of course almost every single minute, when we write something, we do have some thought in our mind and the mistake comes in the selection of the words that we use to express those thoughts.

The second thing which is highlighted in the starting paragraph of this post, is the ability to admit to your mistakes. normally we all lack such ability. this society, this world and most importantly our own body is always demanding this sense of responsibility from us every moment. in other words, i am discussing here the dependence of success is also on the responsibility of admitting your weakness. whenever we commit a sin, or we do any mistake, the first step to rectify that is by acknowledging it. when we do acknowledge it, this act of acknowledging a mistake actually allow us to learn from this mysterious teacher "Mistake". the learning that we get from these mistakes is to avoid doing these mistakes in future life. and again i am emphasizing on the importance of acknowledging our mistakes. because this is the first step toward a better society.

with the above message in today's post, i am acknowledging my mistakes and asking you all to contribute to it positively.

Challenging Days

Life is demanding different challenges each day, i am not aware of the challenges that you people face every day, however all of you will agree to my statement in one way or the other. sometimes doing nothing is also a challenge. A challenge that we fail to accept. its a challenge of doing something, to make your day beautiful by contributing to your society. i mean to people around you, to be at their service, At their service, not for some kind of remuneration, but for the only sole purpose of which we are sent to this world. That purpose actually benefits our own soul, give us that feeling of contentedness, and happiness.

let us wonder about these challenges for a moment. see we all have many questions in mind, first of all why there is these challenges every day, sometimes we feel bored, bored of being unable to contribute to this world. being bored of the fact that we cant make happy, our loved ones, the people that are attached to us, the ones we cant live without them happily.Going deep down in our heart about thse challenges, one can feel a great feeling of responsibilities, to be responsible for the goodness of our loved ones, because, our loved ones also face the same challenge. i am sharing an example here.

when we walk along a road, but the road is busy with traffic, specially in market places, imagine that those who are elders then us, around us, will try to keep us safe from the busy traffic, by doing what? by walking with us like a block between us and the busy traffic. why they do so, because it is their responsibility to take care of you. in return, they see your happy and smily face. which is indeed the ultimate reward. also this act makes you responsible in return for those who are younger then you or in the future when your elders need your support to walk along the road and you have to pay the dues.

thats all for now, this is a point to ponder for you people to share your views. i believe some of you might have come accross this thought, some day.

Regards

Heart and Brain

Understanding is something that indeed is linked to human body part so called Brain. I know there are two body parts of human they usually try to control almost every activity of human body. These are Brain and Heart. but normally we do realize the fact that Heart don't understand. perhaps it is the only job of Brain. so there is always a conflict between these two body parts in one way or another. but sometimes Heart win, even the person don't understand the reason. but why i am saying the Heart wins. is it some sort of war between them, no its not like that, its preferences that human body prefers to go in favor or against any of these body parts. 

The word reasoning is something that human being need to really understand the importance and value of something, anything of their interest. and this very reasoning i am talking about, is the only concern of Brain. the heart is on the other hand having no such red tap-ism of reasoning and justification.  this is why sometimes decisions made by heart are abit quicker one, and is often contradicted by our brain through different reasoning and justifications. however, in case of decisions made by brain, the heart has nothing to say anything about those decision, although heart might not be happy with those decisions sometimes. sometimes these two body parts brain and heart both have agreeable point of view to decide about something. but this is rarely happened, very rarely. normally there is conflict between them.

Anyways, the point to discuss is, that its the human body who obeys the order of these body parts and mostly end up with loneliness, despair, unhappiness. i don't know exactly, what makes us really happy. its perhaps we all want the ultimate level of happiness in our lives. we always have these happiness, despairs, loneliness, unhappiness, but for a shorter time period. not always. its also due to human mood. sometimes we give too much attention to something, which is  not good, on the other hand, too much ignorance is also not good. i have too much views in my mind to write down here, but in this way i wont focus on the subject matter of today's blog. and the subject matter is that Heart and Brain have rarely agreeable point of view. If we find out the secret of what makes them having agreeable at any point. i believe, on every decision whether we take by heart or by brain. we wont regret. we will enjoy it all the time and perhaps that very ultimate end of happiness, we will achieve it.

Thats it for today's blog, if there is anything you guys want to share, i believe it will of great worth for me to comply with. Stay in Touch Folks.

Healthy Thoughts

Life is about facing different situations, different difficulties, different happenings, like one can sometime be having too much things to do, sometimes he must have nothing but thoughts like me to share here on his blog, or sometimes he must be wondering of what to do?. sometimes one might want to be alone, sometimes one might want to have someones company, perhaps one, two or many. similarly human life involves feelings, this feeling of happiness, joy, worriedness, sadness. Always we have things to do, or things to think. i guess this is what life is about. 

Thing for a second, what a dead person has to do? i know a stupid question it is, the answer is simple one word 'nothing'. then there comes another question, why? because thats what makes him to be. i mean a person who does not think, don't do anything, don't struggle etc. don't have any ambition, any target, we call him to be a dead person. 

Sometimes you being a live, and healthy and strong, but this very thing 'Mood' don't want you to be appear as a live person. makes you a dead person in the eyes of others. what you do then? simple if you really care about others thought about you, you actually want to change your appearing status infront of them and you struggle to change your status from being dead to a live person in their eyes. previously i do mention about others expectations, so you do things to live upto their expectations. now the point is if you dont care about others expectations, you simply don't mind, what so ever other think about you.

But in case you really do care, as i wrote above, you start struggles to change your status. here comes a problem of how to bring this change. because it is this very moment that you cant even possibly find whats wrong with you. you happens to be an active member of the family or society, and now here you are lying sluggishly on your bed. just passing time by don't know for sure anything, but not specifically on any particular thing or thought. however many thoughts comes to you, but very rarely you do act upon it.

Sometimes you have to prove to other that you are not worthless, may because you think of yourself as worthless in other eyes, or may be others really think of you as worthless, which is something no one will ever appreciate about himself or herself. in order to prove yourself, the first thing here is to believe that you do really care about others. the second thing important is to believe in yourself.  only then you can bring change what so ever the change you want to. 

As long as you live in this world, try to be up to something worthy in your life, don't waste any of the precious moment in your life, don't spend your living life as dead one. be a healthy person. of course, healthy thoughts are important, very important for a person to be healthy. Make sure of yourself to have an owner of healthy thoughts. you will found yourself in a healthy life living. :)

Over to You my lovely Readers, let me know if i have missed anything here or if this reading is of any help to you in your life.

Trust and Our Usage of It.

Today we talk about trust. what is trust, somewhere i have read about trust is that it is something that you give to someone, anyone it could be, but what something, any sort of secret or personal thing you share with anyone and you believe that the person will take care of it more then i do. in other words trust is like giving someone the opportunity to destroy you, to ruin you, but at the same time locking him/her from destroying you. In this case the other person is totally obliged to you for believing in him but also he is confused as i discussed in earlier post, humans are weak, how could he take care of your burden, but then there comes these beautiful boundedness between human that makes them to be absolutely indebted to the person who relies on him for trusting him.

why we trust each other? why there is a need with us to share things with other, that we only know, why exactly, perhaps sometimes we don't think there is that boundedness, we thing the other person not of someone else, so in this case its this thought of considering the other person as yourself, is responsible. but what if we are not thinking of such thing. what if the other person is indeed other person, why we than trust him/her. perhaps the answer to this in the mind palace is the weakness of human being to survive in this world. this means that a person need to share his personal things, secrets with someone whom he trust is due to getting some sort of confidence or the same feelings towards yourself. like if someone want any another person to believe in him, to trust in him. sometimes we human wants to trick the other person mind. but how? the first question should be of course why, but right now i am asking about how. we try to bring trust into others mind, so the person feel absolutely OK with trusting on you. in other words, diamond cuts the diamond. now the question is why?. 

So may be because sometimes people needs to understand each other. for this they wants to get into the mind of each other. may  be this is not the case, may be people want to trick others mind for doing some evil things or stuff. i don't know, but the fact of the matter is if the person is having such intentions, he might be using help of a tool known as 'Lie'. i hate it personally by the way. any ways so i was saying. sometimes when tricking others mind to get his trust and sharing your trust, you ultimately end up by sharing your own secrets just and couldn't get the job done of getting to know others secret. Interesting fact is that secrets are those things normally people wants to know about others but dont want to share their own with them. because they don't trust them. but could they be trusted themselves of having such intentions. different thoughts and possibilities are always there for every thing that we humans have around us, but the important thing is if we simply understand the value of these special blessings between us, and just simply use these things the way they are and not miss use it, right now i am talking about the miss use of trust. i believe it gives strength to relations. 

So i suggest you guys, try to give strength to your relations.