Trust and Our Usage of It.

Today we talk about trust. what is trust, somewhere i have read about trust is that it is something that you give to someone, anyone it could be, but what something, any sort of secret or personal thing you share with anyone and you believe that the person will take care of it more then i do. in other words trust is like giving someone the opportunity to destroy you, to ruin you, but at the same time locking him/her from destroying you. In this case the other person is totally obliged to you for believing in him but also he is confused as i discussed in earlier post, humans are weak, how could he take care of your burden, but then there comes these beautiful boundedness between human that makes them to be absolutely indebted to the person who relies on him for trusting him.

why we trust each other? why there is a need with us to share things with other, that we only know, why exactly, perhaps sometimes we don't think there is that boundedness, we thing the other person not of someone else, so in this case its this thought of considering the other person as yourself, is responsible. but what if we are not thinking of such thing. what if the other person is indeed other person, why we than trust him/her. perhaps the answer to this in the mind palace is the weakness of human being to survive in this world. this means that a person need to share his personal things, secrets with someone whom he trust is due to getting some sort of confidence or the same feelings towards yourself. like if someone want any another person to believe in him, to trust in him. sometimes we human wants to trick the other person mind. but how? the first question should be of course why, but right now i am asking about how. we try to bring trust into others mind, so the person feel absolutely OK with trusting on you. in other words, diamond cuts the diamond. now the question is why?. 

So may be because sometimes people needs to understand each other. for this they wants to get into the mind of each other. may  be this is not the case, may be people want to trick others mind for doing some evil things or stuff. i don't know, but the fact of the matter is if the person is having such intentions, he might be using help of a tool known as 'Lie'. i hate it personally by the way. any ways so i was saying. sometimes when tricking others mind to get his trust and sharing your trust, you ultimately end up by sharing your own secrets just and couldn't get the job done of getting to know others secret. Interesting fact is that secrets are those things normally people wants to know about others but dont want to share their own with them. because they don't trust them. but could they be trusted themselves of having such intentions. different thoughts and possibilities are always there for every thing that we humans have around us, but the important thing is if we simply understand the value of these special blessings between us, and just simply use these things the way they are and not miss use it, right now i am talking about the miss use of trust. i believe it gives strength to relations. 

So i suggest you guys, try to give strength to your relations.