Heart and Brain

Understanding is something that indeed is linked to human body part so called Brain. I know there are two body parts of human they usually try to control almost every activity of human body. These are Brain and Heart. but normally we do realize the fact that Heart don't understand. perhaps it is the only job of Brain. so there is always a conflict between these two body parts in one way or another. but sometimes Heart win, even the person don't understand the reason. but why i am saying the Heart wins. is it some sort of war between them, no its not like that, its preferences that human body prefers to go in favor or against any of these body parts. 

The word reasoning is something that human being need to really understand the importance and value of something, anything of their interest. and this very reasoning i am talking about, is the only concern of Brain. the heart is on the other hand having no such red tap-ism of reasoning and justification.  this is why sometimes decisions made by heart are abit quicker one, and is often contradicted by our brain through different reasoning and justifications. however, in case of decisions made by brain, the heart has nothing to say anything about those decision, although heart might not be happy with those decisions sometimes. sometimes these two body parts brain and heart both have agreeable point of view to decide about something. but this is rarely happened, very rarely. normally there is conflict between them.

Anyways, the point to discuss is, that its the human body who obeys the order of these body parts and mostly end up with loneliness, despair, unhappiness. i don't know exactly, what makes us really happy. its perhaps we all want the ultimate level of happiness in our lives. we always have these happiness, despairs, loneliness, unhappiness, but for a shorter time period. not always. its also due to human mood. sometimes we give too much attention to something, which is  not good, on the other hand, too much ignorance is also not good. i have too much views in my mind to write down here, but in this way i wont focus on the subject matter of today's blog. and the subject matter is that Heart and Brain have rarely agreeable point of view. If we find out the secret of what makes them having agreeable at any point. i believe, on every decision whether we take by heart or by brain. we wont regret. we will enjoy it all the time and perhaps that very ultimate end of happiness, we will achieve it.

Thats it for today's blog, if there is anything you guys want to share, i believe it will of great worth for me to comply with. Stay in Touch Folks.

Healthy Thoughts

Life is about facing different situations, different difficulties, different happenings, like one can sometime be having too much things to do, sometimes he must have nothing but thoughts like me to share here on his blog, or sometimes he must be wondering of what to do?. sometimes one might want to be alone, sometimes one might want to have someones company, perhaps one, two or many. similarly human life involves feelings, this feeling of happiness, joy, worriedness, sadness. Always we have things to do, or things to think. i guess this is what life is about. 

Thing for a second, what a dead person has to do? i know a stupid question it is, the answer is simple one word 'nothing'. then there comes another question, why? because thats what makes him to be. i mean a person who does not think, don't do anything, don't struggle etc. don't have any ambition, any target, we call him to be a dead person. 

Sometimes you being a live, and healthy and strong, but this very thing 'Mood' don't want you to be appear as a live person. makes you a dead person in the eyes of others. what you do then? simple if you really care about others thought about you, you actually want to change your appearing status infront of them and you struggle to change your status from being dead to a live person in their eyes. previously i do mention about others expectations, so you do things to live upto their expectations. now the point is if you dont care about others expectations, you simply don't mind, what so ever other think about you.

But in case you really do care, as i wrote above, you start struggles to change your status. here comes a problem of how to bring this change. because it is this very moment that you cant even possibly find whats wrong with you. you happens to be an active member of the family or society, and now here you are lying sluggishly on your bed. just passing time by don't know for sure anything, but not specifically on any particular thing or thought. however many thoughts comes to you, but very rarely you do act upon it.

Sometimes you have to prove to other that you are not worthless, may because you think of yourself as worthless in other eyes, or may be others really think of you as worthless, which is something no one will ever appreciate about himself or herself. in order to prove yourself, the first thing here is to believe that you do really care about others. the second thing important is to believe in yourself.  only then you can bring change what so ever the change you want to. 

As long as you live in this world, try to be up to something worthy in your life, don't waste any of the precious moment in your life, don't spend your living life as dead one. be a healthy person. of course, healthy thoughts are important, very important for a person to be healthy. Make sure of yourself to have an owner of healthy thoughts. you will found yourself in a healthy life living. :)

Over to You my lovely Readers, let me know if i have missed anything here or if this reading is of any help to you in your life.

Trust and Our Usage of It.

Today we talk about trust. what is trust, somewhere i have read about trust is that it is something that you give to someone, anyone it could be, but what something, any sort of secret or personal thing you share with anyone and you believe that the person will take care of it more then i do. in other words trust is like giving someone the opportunity to destroy you, to ruin you, but at the same time locking him/her from destroying you. In this case the other person is totally obliged to you for believing in him but also he is confused as i discussed in earlier post, humans are weak, how could he take care of your burden, but then there comes these beautiful boundedness between human that makes them to be absolutely indebted to the person who relies on him for trusting him.

why we trust each other? why there is a need with us to share things with other, that we only know, why exactly, perhaps sometimes we don't think there is that boundedness, we thing the other person not of someone else, so in this case its this thought of considering the other person as yourself, is responsible. but what if we are not thinking of such thing. what if the other person is indeed other person, why we than trust him/her. perhaps the answer to this in the mind palace is the weakness of human being to survive in this world. this means that a person need to share his personal things, secrets with someone whom he trust is due to getting some sort of confidence or the same feelings towards yourself. like if someone want any another person to believe in him, to trust in him. sometimes we human wants to trick the other person mind. but how? the first question should be of course why, but right now i am asking about how. we try to bring trust into others mind, so the person feel absolutely OK with trusting on you. in other words, diamond cuts the diamond. now the question is why?. 

So may be because sometimes people needs to understand each other. for this they wants to get into the mind of each other. may  be this is not the case, may be people want to trick others mind for doing some evil things or stuff. i don't know, but the fact of the matter is if the person is having such intentions, he might be using help of a tool known as 'Lie'. i hate it personally by the way. any ways so i was saying. sometimes when tricking others mind to get his trust and sharing your trust, you ultimately end up by sharing your own secrets just and couldn't get the job done of getting to know others secret. Interesting fact is that secrets are those things normally people wants to know about others but dont want to share their own with them. because they don't trust them. but could they be trusted themselves of having such intentions. different thoughts and possibilities are always there for every thing that we humans have around us, but the important thing is if we simply understand the value of these special blessings between us, and just simply use these things the way they are and not miss use it, right now i am talking about the miss use of trust. i believe it gives strength to relations. 

So i suggest you guys, try to give strength to your relations.

Limits to Human

Today i am here to write about the limits of human being, how limited we are? have we ever give a thought about it. once someone asked a famous scholar of its time, Hazrat Ali (R.A) about the limits of human being, how far a human being can reach, how far a human being can do things. about the limits of human being he was asked. Hazrat Ali (R.A) replied to the man, stand on your one feet, the man did the same and stood on one feet, then Hazrat Ali (R.A) ask him to try to step up your second feet from the ground but make sure that your first feet still in the air. hearing this the man couldnt move further. Hazrat Ali (R.A) says that the limit of a human being. A human being is so weak that he cant even step up his both feet at the same time. because he is limited. if he does so, he may fall.

Let see, how about the huge sky crapper buildings, space crafts and landing on the moon and many more achievements of man on this earth. Indeed its true, man has achieved all this achievements through his well and determination. Man is created to have a body part known as Brain, to think to explore, to describe to explain. man were given these 5 senses to get to know about his surroundings. and gradually man increase the boundary of his surroundings by trying to go beyond these limits. In this way he can achieve the greatest achievements of life.

Here again the word limit comes, still human being is limited to his achievements. why? we say B comes after A, C comes after B and so on Z comes after Y. but here we stop, what comes after Z?. the answer is 'limit'. here we have words for regional, provincial, states, country, international, multinational, global, universal,  then what.....?. i mean to say what then there is always a limit. yes one thing that human has achieved here so far from its very origin is to extend his limitation for yesterdays to present a bit further than yesterday, in present extend it for future to be more beyond the limits of today.i am still looking for answer to questions i asked in the previous post.

Doors To Future

Whenever someone wants to go to a room, he can go to that room through a door ,but one thing for sure is that he must have to leave the room where he is standing right now, so then can achieve his target of being in the other room. In other words, you have to close a door behind you in order to be in this room. for instance lets try to look over tenses, the past tense, the present and the future. what if some one really wants to be in the future, its simple just close the door of present behind himself and find yourself in the unknown future. also if you live in the world of past, how could you live in the world of present without leaving the world of past behind.

Normally if you visit someone, and you were asked to close the door behind you. i dont know what it actually physically mean or by this the person wants you to forget about something that you were upto before coming to this place. its simple, you want to buy a pair of shoe for yourself. you went to market and there you find a shoe shop. so by the time you enter into that shop, you have to forget about the market place now. to give focus to your present that is the attainment of a pair of shoe at shoe shop. only in this way you can give benefit to your future, by having the desired pair of shoe right on time.

Today i am not in position to focus on what i have to share here on my blog, perhaps it is due to resistance of being in the state where i am now, the resistance to avoid being in the position of sharing this idea, so here i am i shared the very happenings with you readers. i will come up with something to share here, as soon as i find myself in a position to. normally its problem for us to being in the same state of inertness. it is a problem because we cant get what we want to get, what we desire for, as we know that whatever we desire, we need to move our self for it. to struggle for it, so that we can achieve it. but this state of inertness stand right in the middle of this struggle and we cant get what we want to. 

So the focus of today's post is to thing of an idea, that how can we overcome this state of inertness to obtain what we want to...waiting for your comments, any idea, with anyone. i would love to receive it.

Human Robots-sometimes.

Different parts of the day give us different things or tasks to do, different is the word that bring separation between two or more than two things or tasks, sometimes people spend their entire day in doing just one single thing, we cant say it that they are involve in different things, sometimes and most often we people perform different things all the day, and some times we people perform different things at one single point in time. focus is the word used here, but how come some people have focus on different things in one point of time. could be their experience, or reflexes, but what is the possibility of performing perfectly two or more than two different things at one point in time. mostly of such people will response to this question with a smile and claims to have enjoying such moments of performing different things at one point in time. 

Two things, some time we people enjoy the time in which we perform two or more than two different things in one point in time. but we then feel a bit ashamed of this act at the completion of these tasks due to missing something or not getting the desired result out of it. on the other hand sometimes we do feel stress in performing two or more than two different tasks at one point in time, due to focusing on both of the ongoing tasks, but we do feel joy and happiness and success at completing these tasks.

Sometimes we do face a lot of distraction due to surrounding may be. these distraction allow us to divert our mind and not necessarily focus on the tasks we performs, ultimately what happen is the inability to achieve the required tasks. Science and technology a very broad term i am using here is giving us the emergence of Robots. this can help us achieve two or different things done on the same point in time. but another thing is the trust. how can we trust a machine in doing our things so perfectly, that even the creator of that machine is unable to perform it. i mean to say we human beings are the creator of those Robots, but we do ufton make mistakes so how come Robots are built to have no knowledge of the Term 'Mistakes'. this is a question perhaps science and technology will give us by allowing us to put our blind trust or to have some few pilot test on the Robot. the question is how could a Robot or Machine perform two or different tasks precisely and accoratly, not just once but tens of thousands of times the very exact manner and get the desired output without having any mistake. 

Another question is, are we simplifying things for us due to Technology or making it difficult more and more. like for example, we do have to take care of the necessary stuff and things and tunings etc of the Robot time to time accurately so that it can give us our desired output. who to blame, no one. i am not blaming anyone. no this blog isn't about criticism, its just discussing or sharing some personal view. we human are also Robot or Machine, if we take care of our selves the way we need, i believe we can indeed get focused and get two or more things done at one point in time successfully.

Imagination is a Gift

It was this very rainy whether, when i met her, the day when i was standing in the entrance of Administration block of our university. she was there with her friend, i dont know whats there name are for sure, but she has something magical in her look. oh i was about to leave that building and i have to reach my department in the rain. sometimes you have to have double thoughts in mind, whether to stay and enjoy this moment for a bit longer time, or forget about this moment and  make sure your presence where i have to be at that moment. i have few documents and my phone of course which i wanted to avoid from being wet due to rain. so i was also thinking of finding a shopping bag somehow so i can wrap these belongings of mine and just rush in that weather. 

So you wont believe, such moments always pause for a while in your mind. anyways, its clear that every student must have some sort of official work in Administration. so its clear she must have come there to have some issue or renewal may be. so i saw her for a while she was there in traditional shalwar qamees dress, however she wasn't wearing any veil to cover her head and hairs with it. so i saw her long thick black hairs so closely that i almost got lost in its darkness. she also had that fragrance of her i know thats called "Shales" her fragrance. how come i know about its name, its a little research and things come right infront of you. will to me it wasnt a research the other day i went to market with my friend. it was his idea of buying perfume for himself. so i ask the shopkeeper show me some charming perfumes that ladies use now adays. and there i find the name of this perfume. so what i am saying here is that she was wearing sandals but not so high heel one, an average one, she got big eyes and why to describe each bit of her. i will just say in one word that is, Beautiful. she is indeed beautiful very beautiful.

will as i made my mind clear of leaving that building, i ask the security guard about that shoping bag if he have any, and in this way i get shoping bag where i put my stuff, i look at the time before wraping my phone in that shoping bag. i got only two minutes. my department is abit far from administraton block, but i have to do, what i should have done few moments ago, by the time i was leaving the Administration block i look back and i saw her stairs and making her way to upper floor but she was gazing me at that moment. i didn't get it, what is there with me that makes here get interested in looking at me. so i ask her in my eyes what is it, why you looking at me, and i got a reply that is oh poor boy, you are going to have a bath in that rain. and she smiles too. i also pass a smile to her and start running towards my department.

A moment i always think of imagining, when i am alone. sometimes some moments do really bring change to your life, some moments do play a role in your imagination, some were a part of reality. but the one which is in your imagination, in your creativity, are the one that last forever. you can enjoy every bit of it, every time, every moment, whenever you want to.

Live Up to 'Others' Expectations

Sometimes we face expectations from our blood relatives, we can say relations by chance. sometimes we face expectations from those relatives that we choose instead of chance. sometimes some relations are both by chance and by choices, like the relation of student and teachers. how you ever thought for a single second, why we all face expectations and we have to live up to these expectations of others. No matter whats the importance of these relations, sometime we prefer blood relations sometimes we prefer the latter one. in both the case if we think, they both lies in the category of 'Others'. parents, siblings, spouse, children, friends, teachers, colleagues. all of them lies in the category of Other.

So the point of the matter is why we always have to live up to the expectations of these so called others. as a matter of fact, we do always prefer to live up to these expectations of others, why, the answer is not a single agreeable point. some says, its for dignity, some says its price. some says its ambition, to some its achievement or objective of living. whatever these thoughts might be, have we ever wonder, what is our own expectations from ourselves. what is the value of our own expectations in comparison to others expectations. 

Sometimes we stuck in the middle of deep drowning mud, to decide what to do, what to prefer, which expectation should we met first, which the second, and which the last, which one's expectation should be the least to consider. and why, so many 'why' exists. how to cope with these why, how to decide the best possible decision among these expectations. i have too much to share here in regards to expectations. wait a min, i just didnt mention one important expectation.

Sometimes the most important expectation to us is that what our girlfriend expect from us. we put this expectation beyond all the important and valued expectations of others. To us this one is the most important one and we do  feel content about this decision. Sometimes we give preference to the parents expectations. sometimes we give preference to the teachers expectations, the supervisors expectations. and sometimes we give preference to our so called buddies. To us these buddies expectations are really the one we want to live up to.

Anyways we all in our life somewhere, somehow, sometimes face these expectations, whether accepting this fact or not, we do live up to these expectation. we do ignore our self, our own expectation.our own ability our own reflexes. we just want to live up to 'Others' expectations. At the end we sometimes feel joy, content, happiness and sometimes we feel sorrow, loneliness and despair.

Students-Teachers-sometimes.

Students’ sometime claims to have learn every single word they were thought. Sometimes All the student in the class are of this above view. Sometimes All the students believe they had learn something from the lecture, but very rarely it occurs, that all of them had learn only specific aspect of that lecture. Mostly, in the above case, it happens that all these students have no agreeable point of learning in that lecture. This means that few of the students may have understand the beginning of the lecture, few of them have learn the middle part, and few of them might have the command over the last part of the lecture. 

Sometimes it happens that all the students, when they are asked about the lecture at the end of the lecture, that did they understand the whole lecture, all the students says ‘yes’. But if they were questioned about the material delivered in the lecture to them, they might unable to answer it. Sometimes they are reluctant to reply the question, but few of them might be having this particular problem, some of the students in the class have the written way of expression in answering the question and don’t possess the ability to answer the question orally. There is also a case that sometimes students do have the written expression, but can’t make other to understand what they had just expressed on the board or paper. Another case is that sometimes students recall half of the learning part. It could be the beginning part of the lecture, or the middle or the last one.

Sometimes it happens that students got stuck in the recalling process and most often when they are recalling they forget the very first line or word of the entire material. They need a bit push. And sometimes some students need a push at almost every paragraph.

Sometime teachers believe that they had delivered the entire material in the lecture 100%. And students understand it 100%. This is very rare case of believing. Sometime they do deliver every bit of the lecture, but the rest of it. sometimes teachers believe that they are unable to deliver their lecture the way it is to be. i.e. knowledge sharing is a pot having a small hole in its bottom. and pouring it with sands of thoughts, ideas etc, you see, its not fully absorbing all of this sand. 

still there are lots of sometimes, that these both student and teacher party face in their ordinary life.