Live Up to 'Others' Expectations

Sometimes we face expectations from our blood relatives, we can say relations by chance. sometimes we face expectations from those relatives that we choose instead of chance. sometimes some relations are both by chance and by choices, like the relation of student and teachers. how you ever thought for a single second, why we all face expectations and we have to live up to these expectations of others. No matter whats the importance of these relations, sometime we prefer blood relations sometimes we prefer the latter one. in both the case if we think, they both lies in the category of 'Others'. parents, siblings, spouse, children, friends, teachers, colleagues. all of them lies in the category of Other.

So the point of the matter is why we always have to live up to the expectations of these so called others. as a matter of fact, we do always prefer to live up to these expectations of others, why, the answer is not a single agreeable point. some says, its for dignity, some says its price. some says its ambition, to some its achievement or objective of living. whatever these thoughts might be, have we ever wonder, what is our own expectations from ourselves. what is the value of our own expectations in comparison to others expectations. 

Sometimes we stuck in the middle of deep drowning mud, to decide what to do, what to prefer, which expectation should we met first, which the second, and which the last, which one's expectation should be the least to consider. and why, so many 'why' exists. how to cope with these why, how to decide the best possible decision among these expectations. i have too much to share here in regards to expectations. wait a min, i just didnt mention one important expectation.

Sometimes the most important expectation to us is that what our girlfriend expect from us. we put this expectation beyond all the important and valued expectations of others. To us this one is the most important one and we do  feel content about this decision. Sometimes we give preference to the parents expectations. sometimes we give preference to the teachers expectations, the supervisors expectations. and sometimes we give preference to our so called buddies. To us these buddies expectations are really the one we want to live up to.

Anyways we all in our life somewhere, somehow, sometimes face these expectations, whether accepting this fact or not, we do live up to these expectation. we do ignore our self, our own expectation.our own ability our own reflexes. we just want to live up to 'Others' expectations. At the end we sometimes feel joy, content, happiness and sometimes we feel sorrow, loneliness and despair.